Saturday, 28 January 2012

Get it yourself

I know many moms out there are frustrated. The romance is gone, the weight is up and everday you are fighting a losing battle with your kids.You are stuck in a life different to the one you wanted. (the happy ever after with fairies and unicorns and rainbow coloured bunnies)
Very грустно (sadly) many women just stay in that "zone". They don't attempt to change anything. I am not talking about the "D" word (le Divorce). You have the power to change anything you want in your life. If you are unhappy in your marraige, but still love your husband, just change your approach to him.
I have a friend who's motto is: "Treat them mean, keep them keen". I don't know how that is going to work out, but I believe in "Killing with Kindness". (That's the name of the knife I will stab in his back if I ever lose it)

The same can be said where it comes to your kids. Change the way you approach them when you want them to listen. Look them in the eyes and be firm. (just not like this)

If you are unhappy with your body, then do something about it. There is nothing that healthy food and some exercise can't fix.

YOU and only you, can change the way your life is going. You can not expect others to get you where you want to be in life. Whatever you want, it is up to you to get it yourself.  Many women don't know what they mean to men and children. They have so much power (as a wife and mom) yet they give up and the only thing they do about it, is feel sorry for themselves.

If need be, change your personality. You know you have done it before. Be the fun, energetic, vibrant and sexy woman you can be. You know she is dying to come out and play again. Make people see you in a different light and shine. Sexy is ...Confidence.